This article from the Dallas Morning News discusses the use of a "Memorandum of Understanding" by siblings to formulate and record their agreement on how to care for an aging parent. Careful planning and open communication by a parent prior to incapacity may avoid the need for such an agreement, but not always.
While I think Sibling Agreements can be a great tool in minimizing family conflict, the drafting attorney would have to be careful to communicate to the parties whom he or she represents. Just like with a prenuptial agreement, one attorney should not represent two or more parties with potentially differing interests. I personally would only prepare such an agreement on behalf of one of the siblings, and would have the agreement state that the other siblings were advised to and given the opportunity to retain their own counsel. Ideally each sibling would have his or her own attorney, which might or might not make the negotiations more contentious, but would certainly help if the enforceability of the agreement was later questioned .
I think it would be difficult to for an attorney to serve merely as a scrivener, just recording the agreement but giving no advice.
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